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March 10, 2010
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She Likes A Boy Who Is Four Years Older
Anonymous Question: Okay , so I like this guy.
He is 4 years older than me.
But I actually like him a LOT.
I reallly have feelings for him , but I don’t think that anything will happen between us, since the age difference he might not think of me that way, and he notices me, but we never talk. He’s on my brother’s basketball team , and once he looked at me and when I looked he looked away right quickly, like he ‘wasn’t looking’ but that made my heart melt..
I know this sounds completely pathetic.
But you don’t fully understand my situation, you do not know me.
I’m not being rude, I’m sorry if it seems that way.
But please try your best in giving me advice.Author’s Response: It does not sound the least bit pathetic and I’m thinking every woman or girl reading this would agree. Most will admit that they have been exactly where you are. Including me AND my Mother. When my Mom was five, she loved a boy who was ten. Many years later, after I was grown and my father had passed away, they began dating. All things are possible. The boy you like may notice you but here’s the hard part… You will have to wait. If you are younger than 18, it is inappropriate for you to date someone who is four years older than you. And if this is a good boy, he will not show any interest in you beyond friendship until you are at least 18 years old.
I understand that your feelings are very intense right now. You will always have a warm place in your heart for this boy. You may find yourself with him one day and you may move on. If it is meant to be then when you are ready, he’ll be ready and it will be. In the meantime, live, learn, grow, love, enjoy. And become even more of the amazing person you are meant to be.
